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  • I guess giving advice on job hunting and interviewing. I've done it so much and learned a lot, I can literally SEE how absolutely NOT confident ppl are about job hunting. ( which I get. More precisely they don't see their value)

    More importantly, they are blind to their value on the market and believe a toxic work environment is normal and hating their life because they hate their job making them miserable is just a part of working.

    When really, when you see and acknowledge your worth, you don't take that shit. You have a CHOICE. Employment isn't a one way street. And employers realize that and treat you with respect.

    Idk it's a whole thing.

    • It's interesting that you're writing this, because I've literally just quit my job due to these reasons, and am starting to look for new things. Any particular tips you'd like to share?

      • Well you got this, and congrats on standing up for yourself by getting out of that shit whole environment. It's not normal and not something you should accept.

        Apply only to jobs you are qualified for that meet your expectations. Expectations? They pay adequately, the hours are decent, it's not to far from where you live, and their job requirements aren't insane.

        Insane job requirements? Toxic employers say this on their job posting;

        "Must be able to work under consistent pressure in a stressful environment while handling multiple tasks at once. Must be able to work a flexible schedule with little notice including nights, weekends and holidays. Must be on call. Must be able to complete other duties as assigned not directly relating to X role. Must be able to take direction. Must be obsessed with customer satisfaction. Customer service, customer service, customer service. (Employers obsessed with customer service care more about the customer then they do about you. So they'll treat you like shit and let customers treat you like shit. You basically don't matter)

        Any misspellings and their job posting, requiring a cover letter, and requiring quizzes questionnaires and personality assessments. Employers seriously looking to hire the right candidate don't waste their time on bullshit like that. If you're qualified they will schedule you for an in-person interview within a drop of a hat.

        Look at Google reviews glassdoor and indeed and get rid of your LinkedIn profile (unless you're in tech) LinkedIn is used to SCREEN YOU OUT.

        Employers don't need to see your connections, a picture of what you look like, and your inspirational statement. all they need is your resume and if they feel that you're qualified they can schedule you for an interview that's all they need to know is the information that's on your damn resume.

        Realize you're worth and have some standards. Don't let employers dick you around. Because they will and once you show them that you respect yourself and your time it's easier to weed through the bullshiters and you'll find and actually good healthy employer.

        Anyway lol I could go on all day lol

    • By any chance do you have some go-to examples of good resumes you like to point people to as what to do with theirs vs. what not to do? I realize this will vary given jobs and you should tailor it accordingly, but some base starting points are better than nothing.

    • I'm gonna pick your brain in a couple months.

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