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No thank you. I don't have the time, the money, or the energy to go looking for a girlfriend... Or spend it on a whole other human and their unique set of needs.
What if I were to tell you you're supposed to get some of that back in a relationship as it moves towards becoming a partnership?
Or that hanging out with them, aka a date, is supposed to be fun?
If you feel like it's fun or that you need a partnership, then go ahead. My time is already divided as it is, and I just don't want it even more divided.
I hardly have any time left to do the things I want to do, to study art and practice 3D. Any time I spend on other things most certainly will not be taken away from my job hours, but will be from my free time.
So I don't want to waste time and money trying to find someone in the first place (most people are incredibly unitereresting), and then waste even more time trying to make it work.
Leave him. He needs this to deal with his loneliness.
Pretty presumptuous to think I feel lonely. Who says I feel like I'm missing anything?
If you're happy with your life, that's perfect!
As people are usually social creatures, it's only natural if someone if in truth not happy about this. There are exceptions of course.
However, my comment was totally misplaced and condescending. My bad. Didn't think much about it. I'm truly sorry about this.
I've deleted the comment.
But he needs to know if he wants to stop being lonely!