It is literally impossible to be a "good" nonbinary person
It is literally impossible to be a "good" nonbinary person
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Not creating accounts and communities to harass people and tell them to kill themselves isn't a very high bar.
Crying transphobia when called out for it is manipulative and dishonest 🤷
Wait... what? What's the context I am missing here?
Yesterday some homophobic ass on pawb.social created a burner account and a community in which to harass another user. That user had previously engaged in a harassment campaign against drag, and drag was in the process of contacting the pawb.social admins to attempt to resolve the situation. Several bystanders assumed the homophobe was drag, because they and drag both disagreed with the same person. Drag doesn't know whether the burner account was created as a false flag or not, but it seemed to have that effect. Drag is disgusted by the comments that ass made for several reasons, including the harassment and the hatred of dragons. Drag doesn't know how drag can prove it wasn't drag. Maybe the admins could do an IP lookup or something? But now people are harassing drag on random posts for the existence of this account.
Okay so:
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You made a post crying transphobia about that mod for banning you from their communities
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The targeted harassment of the mod started right after they replied to your post about them, dispersing your points in a reasonable manner
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The harassment account was crying plenty of transphobia too, just as you do all the time
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In the same breath, they were both misgendering the mod and calling them a "cissy"
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The "homophobia" (mentions of sucking dick) was disproved on the other post when a user posted a screenshot of your sock account also saying they'd suck dick (weird how the sock account doubles down on homophobia right after that, pretty convenient that you'd use that as an excuse)
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You are known to make sock accounts like HonouraryDragon@lemmy.nz that only reply to aggressively defend you
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What's with the obsession with dragons? Like no one even thinks about dragons that much whether they love or hate them. Going either way as a specific character trait is incredibly telling
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You have already had posts removed on this accounts for encouraging both murder and suicide, just like the sock account did
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You have already had posts removed on this account for misgendering people just to spite them, just like the sock account did
TLDR: It's incredibly unlikely that it wasn't you.
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That user had previously engaged in a harassment campaign against drag,[...]
That's literally a lie. A mod banning you from like 4 communities is not a harassment campaign.
Drag is making a choice not to engage. Please do not reply to drag again.
I may be newer and not as active here so I don't know the whole story but from what I've seen looking in the modlog buttonmash has a point, drag's behavior over the past few days is extremely unacceptable, drag has said some awful things that should never be said to anyone, let alone fellow trans people.
However some people have been giving drag a hard time over drag's pronouns, and... you know what... Honestly, shut up! Who the fuck are you to complain about another person's pronoun preferences. You're losers that's what. Maybe drag has done some things that aren't okay but that's no excuse to invalidate drag's pronouns, fuck you and everyone everyone who said that to or about this person. You're not real allies even if you claim to be, you literally invalidate fellow trans people. Seriously fuck you!
Thank you. Drag didn't do the things drag is accused of, but drag doesn't suppose drag can convince anyone at this point. Drag didn't make this post looking for drama. Another user came here to start drama, or bring old drama to this community, or however you want to look at it. And while drag has a problem with that pawb.social user's harassment campaign and the probably false flag attack, drag is not saying any names because drag doesn't want any of those people to come here and start fighting drag again. This post isn't about any of that! If anyone thinks that this post (which is about interrogating nonbinary people over their pronouns) has anything to do with that drama, then they probably agree with you, Blazingtransfem, or else they're just coming here to invent problems and harass drag. If anyone wants to hear drag's side of the story in PMs, they are welcome to. Drag will not be engaging in drama in public again.
Drag may not have done all of them but drag definitely did do some of them. Drag has made racist comments and also has encouraged violence on several occasions. But that's neither here nor there. Everyone makes mistakes, that doesn't justify what was done to drag.
It's very noble to give someone the benefit of the doubt and support them despite the wrongs they've done or are currently doing. I applaud you for the amount of compassion you must have.
However, I think everyone should have the choice on whether they want to be supportive towards someone, as the emotional energy required for that is a very limited resource, especially in us mentally ill and neurodivergent folks.
My criteria for having that choice are not met when people either don't have the full story, or are pressured into compassion due to being confronted with an issue they are particularly empathetic towards or have experienced themselves. Both of these issues are at play here, which is why I feel it's manipulative.
I know getting sympathy and support feels good, but chronically farming it off of people who feel an internal pressure of providing it really bothers me, as it does not feel like full informed consent can be secured.
Hey, I hear what you are saying, but using the correct pronouns for someone is not just being "supportive", it's acting like a human fucking being. The person you're replying to is literally saying drag did the wrong thing, so all I can assume your response means is "I can choose to ignore someone's pronouns if I think they're a bad person". Which is super fucked up. For example, I think Caitlin Jenner is a complete and total piece of shit, but I still use her correct pronouns because I'm not an asshole. This is coming from someone who, like drag, uses 'pup' as a neopronoun, Grow Up!
And trying to start a fight with my fiance in the comments was literally the only alternative to "supporting" drag's right to use neopronouns? You couldn't just downvote and move on?
Oh, drag can discuss those two examples without engaging in any drama. In the first one, drag was talking about the government, not the race. The government controls the press and uses that control to brainwash the german people into supporting genocide. Mostly by misinforming them on the issues, eg: "Israel isn't killing children, those were tactical strikes against Hamas bases that happened to be inside schools and hospitals." All peoples of every race and nationality are susceptible to accepting the words of authority.
Drag absolutely claims the second one, however. Violence against nazis was justified in 1939 and it's justified today. An armed revolution is the only way to overthrow Supreme Leader Trump. Drag doesn't believe in a distinction between action and inaction; letting someone die is the same thing as killing them. If drag were to oppose violence against nazis, drag would be contributing to the deaths of many queer people and people of colour, who are on their way to being killed by Trump's concentration camps and vigilante mobs. Violence against nazis is therefore a form of pacifism.
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