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first we were acused of "love bombing" now apparently we are an abusive partner and groomer of children lol
this is like the friendliest place on the internet (as long as you aren't a chud and are open to leftist thought)
we do have struggle sessions but i stay out of them (and they seem pretty rare these days)
- the love bombing thing was from some .world account when they were doing their "preemptive defederation". claimed we were love bombing but also 4chan and secretly right wing.
  but yeah there's like a fake, saccharine kind of "friendly" say in many places on reddit that is really artificial and cloying
  i don't mean that more that people tend to have real conversations here even if we are still all online-brained. none of the smarmy lib stuff. and yes there is a lot of passion but people know when to walk away and cool off generally
  
  Lmao how coddled do you have to be to think this place is remotely like 4chan?
  
  lol they actually call us "hexchan" over at .world
  
  Aw cute, they call us by an anime name
  
  Even /lit/ is edgier than we are
  
  i need context we were accused of love bombing??? what does that even mean?
  
  While people here on hexbear tend to be very empathetic and caring to each other, I've never seen the kind of coordinated cloying kindness you would associate with cult love bombing. The accusation especially falls apart when one considers users' reactions to someone mentioning their leaving from here; in my experience it's usually either supportive and kind in a way that doesn't go out of its way to try to get someone to stick around, or if they're leaving on bad terms, a swift ban.

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